Most people focus too much on what’s wrong with their life. For this reason, many of them fail to realize that it has so much more to offer if they are just willing to stop and see the signs. If you are one of these unfortunate souls who are starting to feel uninspired and demotivated to enjoy their everyday living to their fullest, then this article is for you.
Here are 15 inspiring ways to love your life, to live it better and happier.
1. Make a list of everything that’s going well in your life right now.
The list starts with acknowledging everything that is going well in your life right now. Are you currently in a healthy relationship? Do you enjoy good friendships and interesting interactions? Do you have a supportive family? Do you have time for your hobbies? How about your current professional growth? Enumerate the best parts about each one then focus on how they make you feel. Finally, think of how they give you a reason to wake up every morning.
2. Look back at your past self and realize what you have overcome.
Now that you have a clear picture of everything that you have that makes your life worth living, revisit your past and realize how you worked so hard to achieve what you have now. Love your life by commending yourself and being proud of what a strong person you have become. Thank your past self for holding on and for doing all the hard work to get to where you are now.
3. Love yourself and share the same love with those who deserve it.
Now that you have identified the best things about your life and how your past self helped shape it, try to develop the beautiful and well-deserved part of loving yourself. Self-love will help you fill your cup and pour love into other people’s cups, without worrying about running out. However, keep in mind to only give your precious love to those who deserve it. Stay away from toxic relationships and from people who deliberately drain the love out of you.
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4. Remember the moments that made you feel alive.
Remind yourself of the best moments and experiences that made you feel alive: your graduation, your birthdays, meeting the love of your life, being appreciated by the people who matter to you, among others.
5. Don’t forget that life has more to offer.
By consciously remembering the best parts day, your month, or year, you’ll be reminded of the best things that life is capable of giving. It will also make you realize that you can enjoy the same moments, or even happier, more unforgettable ones, only if you give life a chance.
6. Remind yourself that you are capable of so much more.
Just as how life has more to offer, you are also capable of offering so much more to life and to the people around you. Love your life by giving it your best shot. Love your life by discovering your potential as a friend, a partner, a human being, an employee, and a citizen of the world.
7. Make a list of the things that you want to achieve in this lifetime.
Imagine how your efforts, your talent, and your passions can help people and can make the world a better place. It does not matter if you just want to be the best person for the people you love or you want to change the world. Whatever it is that you can offer, as long as it is genuinely given, can help you feel the fulfillment and achieve that sense of purpose that most people seek in their lifetime.
8. Follow your passion and explore new things, places, and ideas.
In order to achieve the things that you set for yourself, you have to follow your passion and explore new horizons. Loving your life means pursuing the seemingly impossible and hard-to-achieve goals because you owe it to yourself to try. You owe it to yourself to grab opportunities and make an effort to be the best.
9. Feel the love from the people closest to you.
There are moments and circumstances that make you hate life and resent your efforts to fully live it. During these moments, hold on to the memories and remind yourself that you are loved. Remind yourself that you are worthy of love and your life matters, not only to the people closest to you but to those who find your presence inspiring.
10. Reap the rewards of your labor and celebrate your success.
Enjoy the rewards from all the hard work and effort you put into everything that you do. Celebrating these wins, big or small, can help you realize how fun, precious, and worth-loving life is. It will also make you want more from life, and wanting more from it means working harder to become better.
11. Remember the people you helped along the way.
Aside from the things and effort you put into self-improvement, you have to give yourself credit for the gestures of kindness that you showed other people. When you think that your accomplishments aren’t enough or you feel that you have not lived your best life, stop and reflect. Remember how you reached out to people and just knowing that your actions helped them should be enough to remind you that your existence makes a difference. Take comfort in the fact that you made a difference in someone else’s life.
12. Think of the friendships and encounters that changed your life.
Just reminding yourself that you have friends and you have these life-changing encounters with strangers can help you realize how interesting life is. Love your life by appreciating these beautiful connections and these rare interactions.
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13. Celebrate the relationships that made you feel special.
Celebrate the relationship you have with your significant other, especially if you know that it’s true love. Just experiencing this rare form of love will inspire you to appreciate life and look forward to happier, better days. True love in a relationship will also give you a glimpse of how this beautiful feeling can inspire you to wake up each morning with a sense of purpose and love for life.
14. Think of what you can offer to make the world a better place.
Focus on what your life and living it to the fullest can contribute to transforming the world and everyone who lives in it. You don’t have to do anything extraordinary. Or maybe you can organize weekend volunteer work, join environmental advocacies, use your talent to inspire and educate people, just to name a few. Just be your best self, love the people around you, be kind to others, and do your part to make the world a better place.
15. Look forward to new things and to what the future holds.
Lastly, in order to love your life, you have to look forward to the new things and to what the future holds. Life is exciting because you don’t know what is in store for you. You can explore new things and be excited about the potentials and possibilities.
Hopefully, this article made you realize that loving your life is one of the most beautiful things that you can give to yourself. It’s not enough to survive every day. You have to savor each moment, appreciate connections and relationships, and give yourself the chance to be happy by appreciating every single day.